What is your narrative?
I made this comment over on Tim Boucher’s site where he has been talking about history, both cultural and personal. This sums up one strand of theory that I am currently working on called Narrative Theory.
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Everything is narrative from a certain point of view.
I think i have said it before on this site, but I have a theory that you are constantly telling yourself a story about your past, about what is happening in the present and what you expect your future to be.
And people revise this story all of the time. It’s like a meta program that we all run, keeps us motivated, gives us direction, shit like that.
History is just the collective version of this, the culture is always telling itself a narrative about its past, its present direction and it’s future.
Oh yeah, and that other bit of wisdom “History is always told by the winning side”
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I have found that being aware of the story that you are telling yourself is a very empowering thing. The story that you tell yourself defines who you are and what you think you can do. Change the story and you essentially change who you are, and the meaning of events in your past. Once you know that you are a creator of the story that you listen to you can look at your self imposed limits, the part where the story says that you couldn’t possibly do, and see that you have the power to transcend this limit.
It is also good to keep in mind that everyone around you is doing this as well. Peoples behavior and thoughts are dictated by the story that they have internalized and are now telling to themselves. People tell themselves that they are rich when they are just getting by, then go and spend up big on credit because they have internalised the story and really do think that they are rich. Sometimes this works for people, they “fake it till they make it” and the projection of being rich and confident with money actually opens up business opportunities for them and contacts, so they actually do become rich. For others reality turns around and bites them hard.